tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7731762173286561871.post1570007274784709801..comments2023-10-11T11:58:15.514-04:00Comments on honor yourself: the crippled control freak.terri st. cloudhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15051778033153655065noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7731762173286561871.post-54811665819761908352009-10-05T09:27:31.406-04:002009-10-05T09:27:31.406-04:00I'm sitting here thinking. Nobody is going to ...I'm sitting here thinking. Nobody is going to feel good/happy about sickness and death. Even if its the end of suffering and pain, it is hard to rejoice over the loss.<br /><br />While you can't control the disease or the sadness or the outcome you can be honest about your feelings. One can try to make the best of a bad situation. And I believe that's what you do when you stand beside someone and try to love their pain away. I don't think you are really trying to fix the problem as make the person as happy or comfortable as you can at the moment. In my mind that is compassion not control.<br /><br />What do you think?<br /><br />When it comes to feelers I think you are right up there at the top, in touch with every emotion whether you like it or not. Just my observation!Merry MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462036349233154101noreply@blogger.com