something i've known for years kinda slipped right
on by me lately....this one sounds small....but it's
way bigger than you think at first.
"presentation is everything."
how many times have i said that to friends when
they were having a problem with someone???
and here i am rammin' my head and heart against
someone i love a ton because his presentation stinks.
grin.
okay.
not fair.
let's try that again.
his presentation is totally different than the
presentation i need.
it occurred to me today...we both want the same thing.
totally. so. um. why in the world do i want to run
and hide when the subject comes up? because what he
thinks is a loving presentation makes me feel really
lousy.
go figure.
that's kinda amazing.
mars and venus???
think about it.
how many times does that happen between people?
um.
they have a word for this.....
no.two words:
"total miscommunication."
yeah, that would be it.
but it makes more sense to me when i look at it like
his presentation stinks.
we talked about it today. i think i used much more
diplomatic words than 'stinks'....
and we both saw it.
we're both totally, totally different.
this makes sense.
and it feels so much less threatening when i step out
and look at it from this angle.
angles.
they're everything, aren't they?
no.
presentation AND angles are everything!
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