there's more than one trick, ya know?
the first trick is communication.
but we all know that that's harder than
specially between males and females.
so then there's another trick....
realizing that what they heard isn't
what you said. and you really didn't
communicate it. and believing that when
their response hurts.
and the third trick is choosing to
believe in them when you go to straighten
it out and believing that if you both
understood each other, there would be
that's a pretty important trick.
one i keep learning.
i can't do it with just anyone...
but i can do it with him....
sometimes the beauty of that astounds me.