it's so easy when it's not your problem.
she came to me about something she was struggling
with and it was so easy for me to see.
someone couldn't offer what it was she was looking
for. and they couldn't see that, couldn't own that,
couldn't do anything about it. they made it all her
i told her that it had nothing to do with her.
had nothing to do with who she was or what she was
looking for. that nothing was wrong with any of that.
this other person just couldn't offer it.
easy for me to say.
but i swear, it was clear as day.
so okay, ter.....turn that on your stuff.
some of your people.
it is so the same thing.
can i just get so clear with my own stuff and just
let people be?
ah, that sure would be nice.
let people be.
give them a rest.
and give me a rest too.
people are doin' what they're doin' for their own reasons.
and that's as it should be.