i've been worried about him.
he's been having a really hard time.
he dropped me a note this morning to
check in....and explained to me how
he's felt like a 'spectator' to life
instead of a participant.
i stopped on that one.
i remember when i got the word 'victim'...
it was so exciting.
i could look around me and see so many victims...
people who just weren't gonna change what was
goin' on because they felt helpless.
then i'd notice when i fell into victim mode.
i'd catch it and be awed by it.
it's so easy to fall into.
and then when i'd see it, i could change it.
here's a new one!
it's got a bit of a twist to it......
and i think it can be equally as helpful.
gonna watch now.
to see who's participating around me and who's
and gonna keep an eye on myself.
when do i switch from one mode to the other.
and how's it feel????
ohhhhhhh new words! new concepts!
what are you today?
spectator or participant???
good question, isn't it???